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Bienvenue everybody! Don't know about y'all but there are sometimes when I just need to blow off some steam about my love life or lack of it and this is a place where you can talk about anything and I mean anything that you love or loathe about love life.

I'm a boy and I just joined the 'Boys are Stoopid' Group!

Posted By DavidPro on Oct 21, 2010 at 11:04AM

Yep! It's true.

And hey, I can admit that most men are kinda self absorbed and insensitive... but let's toast the man who can talk about his feelings, who writes romantic letters to his girl, who bakes, does yoga, gives a good hug and heck, a great foot massage.

He's out there. Just be patient.

Ladies, this man is evil. Do not answer his messages pls.

Posted By conni66 on Jun 29, 2008 at 8:29AM

My name is Constance, the Ex-Wife of Michael Jay Bulger. Or mikee5293, mikejb5293, mike5293 google and you'll see. I'm writing to you because I'm am a VICTIM also. Although my divorce to Michael wasn't final until last November 9, 2007, I have known for a long time about some of his girlfriends. Mail from them would come to the house and I would read them, trying to figure out what he was up too since he was spending all day on paid dating sites, smoking 4 packs and I was paying the bills. Once I found out what he was doing, I moved out and we were separated. He put my picts.all over the web showing off to his ladies telling that he was a WIDOW!

Then he lied his way back into my life for another year and a half, telling me he was working abroad not telling me he abandoned a lady in Panama no money, no food, no visa, many unpaid bills, no airfare telling her thousands of lies, until I said "NO MORE!" I kicked him out and we divorced.He used a fake address in Las Vegas, Romantic Sunset St. So, I will try to explain the "real" truth about Michael, a 63 years old man born to cheat and lie to women, he had a unhappy childhood, drunken, absent father.

As far as the 2001 Lincoln Car he talks about? I acquired a loan in my name for that car for him, but he had to make the payments since he had bad credit in Ohio. This is why he has bad dentures, disgusting skin,many diseases. He kept the payments up until he left the US telling he found ajob abroad (lie...he moved to Panama bringing wornout stuff from his parents, old clothes, a shame) and then he told Chris that he could have the car. He has no legal rights to it and I have made legal arrangements to keep his hands off the car unless he pays for it. but how with a small pension?.

He is a low down scoundrel who preys on filipino, panamenian or any women. He likes to control everything in his life including women. He is mean, disgusting, arrogant, lying bastard and is not going to change. He is a mentally, sick user and has practiced his act and lies for many years.

Carmen, a mexican woman left him for all the reasons above and many more. Michael was doing his internet dating thing even while he was married to Carmen. He controlled her life for 22 years while they were married. She waited for her last son, Sean, to turn 18yrs old and then she left him. He tried to sue her in court, but could never get a lot of money from her. He tried to make it out like it was all her fault. Carmen run off with a black man and his house in Pataskala was foreclosured. He went into bankruptcy in Sept.2006. Reason? a COMPULSION for paid dating sites even being impotent..

Since Michael is so prejudges against blacks, he still tried to make her life a living hell by writing letters to her boss, the head of a bank and tried to get her fired. Now he is online again and again asking women's money for his trips maybe a new car since his is old.

Now about me and his family. His sons are nothing like he says. We have come together to bond as a family to make sure Michael's lies and scams are stopped. We have notified the U.S. Immigration, FBI, Texas Rangers, my local Police Department (my youngest son is a policeman), Homeland Security, Border Patrol, Dept. of Defense, and anyone else that can be of legal assistance to us. He is no longer welcome in the United States or his hometown. If he tries to come home, each one of these authorities will be notified and he will be taken into custody for fraud and deceit. As far as I know, he has not given up his U.S. Citizenship. So when his luck runs out in the Phillipines and he wants to run back here, he will be met with a lot of problems. He has no family support here and never will again.

Now about me. When I married Michael in May 2004, I had no idea he was the way he is. A crook...Compulsive liar. I tried to hold the marriage together, but he was just looking for another woman to take care of him. Michael was about to get fired from gov.job when he put in his retirement papers and he left the Federal Government as quickly as he could before they found out what he was doing. All the complaints that I'm a bitch, he hated me, etc. He never had to stay with me if he didn't want to. He was always free to go whenever he wanted to, but, you see, he was always broke. Because of his quick retirement, he doesn't get that much of a pension. I have always taken care of myself, personally, and financially. I've always made and had my own money and he didn't like that, so he started telling lies to get my money, which never happened. All the blogs on the panama, colombia, mexico and phillipine sites identify me as a withered, dried up old lady, but just for the record, I am a Fitness Tech and a well known women's 30 min. fitness center in Columbus, and have always taken care of myself. Even though Michael didn't love me just wanted my pension, he was so jealous of other men looking at me - and I was healthy and he was not. I had money and he was always broke, bad credit all over US...Yes, I'm sticking up for myself, because what has been said on the blogs is not true. In fact, it is the farthest from the truth. Those are the lies that he has told everyone, including you and your wife.

I hope this clears up a few things. I'm sorry you ever met Michael Jay Bulger and his sons are devastated that this is the man that calls himself their father. They have disowned him and he continues to try to discredit their family in Brighton, Co. Alice, Tx, Sonoita, Az. and their lives as well as mine. Now I am scared to meet men, many can be like him.

His sister Michelle B. in Sonoita, Az, marrried to Richard, poor man, has been called an overweight funny pathetic woman with strange haircut because she did not give him money and married nine times.

I wish you the best ladies, do not believe webcrooks like MJB anymore. May God be with you.

connie spence archuleta bulger (i carry this name with shame.he has no honor or dignity!!) Have a Blessed Day, ladies.

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Need to vent about the EX!!!!

Posted By atablackbelt on Feb 8, 2008 at 4:37PM

My BF just dumped me for being insecure about our relationship, because I thought he was getting back with his ex. He bought her a gift for Xmas and for her birthday. He claims that it is only about teaching his kids how you treat women, but he dumped me for asking him about it. And then five HOURS later he accidentally sends me a text meant for her telling her how much he loves her blah, blah, blah. Then when I asked him about texting her five hours later, he trys to deny he ever did, but I have the text message!!!! I HATE MEN!!!


Posted By scaredbabygirl on Jan 9, 2008 at 7:26AM

I apologized (for nothing) and now guess what? I am still getting the pouty silent treatment. Imagine that?!

Why, Why, Why?

Posted By scaredbabygirl on Jan 8, 2008 at 6:44PM

Why is it that boys can turn your hurt feelings into something you've done wrong? You tell them they have upset you and then they start throwing a big baby fit so that we will say we're sorry. UH-NO. Boy; can't live with them can't live without them.


Posted By LolaDub on Nov 4, 2007 at 8:15AM

LOL..nice shirt heath!

Boys Can Be So Irritating

Posted By sofabed on Dec 10, 2006 at 7:18AM

Let's start with the boy I liked. So we met each other online, through my friend, in our senior years in high school...But life got in the way so we lost touch. Fast forward to 3 years later, he gets in touch with my friend who puts me back in touch with me. So we start talking on the phone, and we really hit it off...I mean, if I could picture the right guy, that said the exact things I wanted to hear, he would be that guy...so by this time, we figure that we should meet...But things happen, on his part that causes us to not meet. A year goes by and we live 15 minutes away, and we still can't meet. I liked him and he liked me. So what was the problem? Him...I was "too good" for him, he "didn't deserve" me...blah, blah, blah...He gave me a million and one excuses all saying I'm this great person, and yet he avoids me like the plague. While I'm thinking, "Finally, a guy I like that likes me too. On top of that, he's everything I hoped he could be...He likes me for all of me, he actaully does listen, he knows how to cheer me up, he knows my moods and when I get in one, he thinks the same way I do and says out loud what I think about but is afraid to say, he makes me feel good about myself, he makes me happy, he puts me first...finally...the right guy." So he gets in the way. He said all the right things, but never did anything...That's basically the problem.

Then there's my best friend's boyfriend. I've never heard of any guy be so needy, I thought guys had pride...Since he moved here from out of state, he has no friends, so he desperately clings to my best friend...He cries to her about how she doesn't make time for him when she has her own life she has to balance and prioritize, and they're both under 21. She had to invite him to the movies with her girlfriends or family just so he won't feel left out. He doesn't try to make guy friends or do anything else, but complain to her about how she doesn't make time for him. I may be too quick to judge, but I want my friend with a man, not a boy, that will help her move forward in life and not hold her back. I want her boyfriend to make sure she does well in college, and not ask her to skip a class just to spend time with him. I can't spend quality time with my best friend because she has to spend time with him...so I have to spend time with him too, and I don't like being a third-wheel, especially to a guy who doesn't make an effort to get to know his girlfriend's best friend...So I guess he doesn't care that I can't stand him.


Posted By nyaradzom2001 on Sep 20, 2006 at 8:15PM

Just had to ask why women have to do all the hard work these days. Back home the guys do all the chasing and they are so good at it that even if you aren't interested in the beginning eventually you will be. Here the guys are all so dumb they expect you to come to them and stuff and I can't do that. So frigging annoying I blame it all on Becks(he's a stoopid boy) cos now they are all metrosexuals and not plain old men who aren't afraid to hit on women for fear of getting rejected. Come on boys I may seem intimidating but I'm really nice, I promise.


Posted By nyaradzom2001 on Sep 20, 2006 at 8:11PM

So like a total lol! I got asked out on a date today by a friend. He's been asking for the past two months and I kept on fobbing him off cos I was stuck on the stoopid boy so he backed off but today he asked me again. He was like so I still want to go out with you come see a movie with me or something, and moi being moi I was like okay I have nothing to lose. He totally made my day and so did ANTM. Now to try fit him into my schedule. Don't think anything will happen though cos boys are stoopid!

Like I said boys are stoopid!

Posted By nyaradzom2001 on Sep 19, 2006 at 8:18PM

The good Lord knows I will never understand men. Never I tell you! So i was seeing this guy over the summer and we were hot I tell you, hot and then bam! he just stopped talking to me. I don't know whether he took a comment I made about wanting a man who has his own life and doesn't bother me too far but whatever. So then like a month ago we start talking again and i wasn't over him. And he acts like he wants me again and all but honestly he plays too many games and as of today as far as I am concerned are done. Totally done as in no more flirting or eye contact done.I don't need a man who is into mind games, i can play stuff like that online thank you very much. So as of this instant right now Andrew(so not his name), we are kaput. time to bring out the flirtmachine within me there are too many hot guys on campus for me to take this.
Now that felt good.

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